[KARAF-3293]more fine-grained way to specify the jmx.acl.whitelist.cfg
(cherry picked from commit edb7b1bc40be6ad65d65c9e1b3c18ba2a2ca80a3)

Conflicts:
	management/server/src/main/java/org/apache/karaf/management/KarafMBeanServerGuard.java