Fix share key finding algorithm in various cases

Instead of inaccurate pattern matching, use the list of users who we
know have access to the file to build the list of share keys.

This covers the following cases:

- Move/copy files into a subfolder within a share
- Unsharing from a user
- Deleting files directlry / moving share keys to trashbin
Merge pull request #11137 from owncloud/enc-pregfix

Fix share key pattern matching