py: Reduce size of VM exception stack element by 1 machine word.

This optimisation reduces the VM exception stack element (mp_exc_stack_t)
by 1 word, by using bit 1 of a pointer to store whether the opcode was a
FINALLY or WITH opcode.  This optimisation was pending, waiting for
maturity of the exception handling code, which has now proven itself.

Saves 1 machine word RAM for each exception (4->3 words per exception).
Increases stmhal code by 4 bytes, and decreases unix x64 code by 32
bytes.
docs: Make admonition for CPy-difference use "attention" class.

This renders it in yellow/orange box on RTD server.