devmapper: Add per-device lock

We currently use a global lock to protect global data (like the
Devices map) as well as device data itself and access to
(non-threadsafe) libdevmapper.

This commit also adds a per-device lock, which will allow per-device
operations to temporarily release the global lock while e.g. waiting.
The per-device lock will make sure that nothing else accesses that
device while we're operating on it.

Docker-DCO-1.1-Signed-off-by: Alexander Larsson <alexl@redhat.com> (github: alexlarsson)
devmapper: Increase sleep times and unlock while sleeping

We've seen some cases in the wild where waiting for unmount/deactivate
of devmapper devices taking a long time (several seconds). So, we increase
the sleeps to 10 seconds before we timeout. For instance:

https://github.com/dotcloud/docker/issues/4389

But, in order to not keep other processes blocked we unlock the global
dm lock while waiting to allow other devices to continue working.

Docker-DCO-1.1-Signed-off-by: Alexander Larsson <alexl@redhat.com> (github: alexlarsson)
Merge pull request #4504 from alexlarsson/devicemapper-waits

devmapper: Increase sleep times and unlock while sleeping