SI-8947 Additional layers of defense against EmptyTree mutation

As suggested in review:

  - Use `abort` rather than `{error; EmptyTree} when we hit an
    error in reification or tag materialization.
  - Explicitly avoid adding the `MacroExpansionAttachment` to the
    macro expansion if it an `EmptyTree`
  - Emit a `-Xdev` warning if any other code paths find a way to
    mutate attachments in places they shouldn't.