Fixed some make and linking issues of RocksDBJava

Summary:
Fixed some make and linking issues of RocksDBJava. Specifically:
* Add JAVA_LDFLAGS, which does not include gflags
* rocksdbjava library now uses JAVA_LDFLAGS instead of LDFLAGS
* java/Makefile now includes build_config.mk
* rearrange make rocksdbjava workflow to ensure the library file is correctly
  included in the jar file.

Test Plan:
make rocksdbjava
make jdb_bench
java/jdb_bench.sh

Reviewers: dhruba, swapnilghike, zzbennett, rsumbaly, ankgup87

Reviewed By: ankgup87

Subscribers: leveldb

Differential Revision: https://reviews.facebook.net/D20289