ParseIR: don't take ownership of the MemoryBuffer

clang was needlessly duplicating whole memory buffer contents in an attempt to
satisfy unclear ownership semantics. Let's just hide internal LLVM quirks and
present a simple non-owning interface.

The public C API preserves previous behaviour for stability.

git-svn-id: https://llvm.org/svn/llvm-project/llvm/trunk@211861 91177308-0d34-0410-b5e6-96231b3b80d8