Add function and wrapper to switch lockmgr and vnode lock back to
auto-promotion of shared to exclusive.

Tested by:	hrs, pho
Sponsored by:	The FreeBSD Foundation
MFC after:	1 week
Direct access to the quota files, in particular, lookup, causes lock
conflict with the quota metadata access.  Mark quota vnode lock as
recursive and always exclusive to avoid the problem.

Reported by:	hrs
Tested by:	hrs, pho
Sponsored by:	The FreeBSD Foundation
MFC after:	1 week