embedding: fix type decls
embedding: add cef_display_handler_t decl
embedding: add cef_life_span_handler_t decl
embedding: add cef_client_t decl
embedding: add cef_window_info_t decl
util::opts::default_opts() is now pub
embedding: redo browser creation and message loop code to be more CEF-like

big thanks to @alexcrichton for his help with this
embedding: redo browser creation, split after_created COM to separate function

this causes the callback to run at the expected time for applications that may depend on the browser loop having started or somesuch
auto merge of #4049 : zmike/servo/embedding-callbacks, r=jdm

begin implementing CEF COM, add more types (stupid rust-bindgen taking forever to figure out...)

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