[SPARK-3126][SPARK-3127][SQL] Fixed HiveThriftServer2Suite

This PR fixes two issues:

1. Fixes wrongly quoted command line option in `HiveThriftServer2Suite` that makes test cases hang until timeout.
1. Asks `dev/run-test` to run Spark SQL tests when `bin/spark-sql` and/or `sbin/start-thriftserver.sh` are modified.

Author: Cheng Lian <lian.cs.zju@gmail.com>

Closes #2036 from liancheng/fix-thriftserver-test and squashes the following commits:

f38c4eb [Cheng Lian] Fixed the same quotation issue in CliSuite
26b82a0 [Cheng Lian] Run SQL tests when dff contains bin/spark-sql and/or sbin/start-thriftserver.sh
a87f83d [Cheng Lian] Extended timeout
e5aa31a [Cheng Lian] Fixed metastore JDBC URI quotation

(cherry picked from commit cf46e725814f575ebb417e80d2571bccc6dac4a7)
Signed-off-by: Michael Armbrust <michael@databricks.com>