API: allow negative steps for label-based indexing

This should fix #8716.

Some of this refactoring may be useful for #8613, so I'd like someone to look through this.

cc'ing @shoyer, @jreback and @jorisvandenbossche .

TODO:
- add tests for label slicing with negative step (ix, loc)
   - [x] int64index
   - [x] float64index
   - [x] objectindex
- [x] fix datetime/period indices
-  add tests for label slicing with negative step (datetime, string, native pandas scalar) x (ix, loc)
   - [x] datetimeindex
   - [x] periodindex
   - [x] timedeltaindex
- [x] clean up old partial string code?
- [x] benchmark