[SPARK-3731] [PySpark] fix memory leak in PythonRDD

The parent.getOrCompute() of PythonRDD is executed in a separated thread, it should release the memory reserved for shuffle and unrolling finally.

Author: Davies Liu <davies.liu@gmail.com>

Closes #2668 from davies/leak and squashes the following commits:

ae98be2 [Davies Liu] fix memory leak in PythonRDD
[SPARK-3825] Log more detail when unrolling a block fails

Before:
```
14/10/06 16:45:42 WARN CacheManager: Not enough space to cache partition rdd_0_2
in memory! Free memory is 481861527 bytes.
```
After:
```
14/10/07 11:08:24 WARN MemoryStore: Not enough space to cache rdd_2_0 in memory!
(computed 68.8 MB so far)
14/10/07 11:08:24 INFO MemoryStore: Memory use = 1088.0 B (blocks) + 445.1 MB
(scratch space shared across 8 thread(s)) = 445.1 MB. Storage limit = 459.5 MB.
```

Author: Andrew Or <andrewor14@gmail.com>

Closes #2688 from andrewor14/cache-log-message and squashes the following commits:

28e33d6 [Andrew Or] Shy away from "unrolling"
5638c49 [Andrew Or] Grammar
39a0c28 [Andrew Or] Log more detail when unrolling a block fails