[CF] Code cleanup part 1

Summary:
I'm cleaning up some code preparing for the big diff review tomorrow. This is the first part of the cleanup.

Changes are mostly cosmetic. The goal is to decrease amount of code difference between columnfamilies and master branch.

This diff also fixes race condition when dropping column family.

Test Plan: Ran db_stress with variety of parameters

Reviewers: dhruba, haobo

Differential Revision: https://reviews.facebook.net/D16833