Implement spell formula 137

This is only used in the BER AA Desperation
Fix for LoadBuffs() server crash
Fix some effect value calcs and implement more

Derived from the client
Make tell message a bit more understandable.
Fix error in 64f5bfd
Stop nuking MySQLRequestResult Success flag
Merge pull request #51 from EQEmu/master

update this crappy code yay!