Update index.js

Changed default ports to be 443 for SSL and 80 for non-SSL (they were switched).
Fixes to pass the whole URL to the connection so as to get host and path. Also fixed the handshaking code since it never seemed to hit.
Update package.json

Bumped package version
Update README.md

Callback in ws.connect() didn't feel very optional, it failed with a hard error when I didn't include it.
Got rid of the "C" that was lurking in Upgrade... Not sure where that came from.
Merge branch 'master' of https://github.com/mcdonamp/nodejs-websocket
Got rid of ;'s to stay in the style of the original code.
Added in the changes for the server in connection.
Added change to allow for secureConnect events rather than just connect events (for SSL support).
Merge pull request #7 from mcdonamp/master

Problems with secure websockets