Activate vcpus from bhyve(8) using the ioctl VM_ACTIVATE_CPU instead of doing
it implicitly in vmm.ko.

Add ioctl VM_GET_CPUS to get the current set of 'active' and 'suspended' cpus
and display them via /usr/sbin/bhyvectl using the "--get-active-cpus" and
"--get-suspended-cpus" options.

This is in preparation for being able to reset virtual machine state without
having to destroy and recreate it.