Allow ban/invite/exception short replies

Allow replies with only 2 arguments in ban/invite/exception lists.
RFC2812 specify only two arguments, ban owner and set date in an extensions.
Fix duplicate entries in banlist window

If user is pressing hotkey of list window too fast there is duplicate entries
in list.
Improve ban/exception/invite list display

This commit allows user to see channel mode lists using both UI and
commands like "/mode #channel +I" in server window.