Remove all AsyncListener JS code

Squashed for simplicity. There are also changes in the naming of some of the native API's so what it's called actually reflects what is going on. Also added a few TODO's, etc.

Review, comment, and if necessary I'll break up the commits into relevant segments.

Also, didn't add https://github.com/tjfontaine/node/commit/6a74d6c to the changes. If that conditional is hit then there's a bug in the code. I'd rather add an `ASSERT()` or the like that can be reported instead of silently ignored.

/cc @tjfontaine @indutny @orangemocha
The only API solution I can think of is to pass the parent as a constructor argument. Though there's the issue that construction happens within a `v8::FunctionTemplate`, to which it's difficult to pass arguments. Still figuring out an elegant solution around that.