Ispn 4521

https://issues.jboss.org/browse/ISPN-4521

I am pretty certain the cause of the replication failures was actually https://github.com/wburns/infinispan/commit/d61c4b8e4b741c8ab280bb9824167857f5ae2db0#diff-36927bd3047e2cf4f42359fb4acaa503R36 in that it could have a miss overlapping with the schedule.

I have also updated all the test threading to use pooling for tests and also fixed some various issues with CountDownLatches used erroneously as ways to have threads run at about the same time.
Nitpicking: should just declare Exception