[SPARK-3890][Docs]remove redundant spark.executor.memory in doc

Introduced in https://github.com/pwendell/spark/commit/f7e79bc42c1635686c3af01eef147dae92de2529, I'm not sure why we need two spark.executor.memory here.

Author: WangTaoTheTonic <barneystinson@aliyun.com>
Author: WangTao <barneystinson@aliyun.com>

Closes #2745 from WangTaoTheTonic/redundantconfig and squashes the following commits:

e7564dc [WangTao] too long line
fdbdb1f [WangTaoTheTonic] trivial workaround
d06b6e5 [WangTaoTheTonic] remove redundant spark.executor.memory in doc