ISPN-2956 Hot Rod conditional operations and transactional caches

* Transactional caches are required in order to be able to guarantee
correct retry logic for Hot Rod operations relying on conditional
operations, or operations where the previous value is returned.
* WARN messages have been added for when conditional or operations
needing previous value are executed against non-transactional caches.
* Documentation updated with a section on Java Hot Rod client failover
capabilities and its effects on conditional operations.
ISPN-4414 Compatible failover request load balancer for HR clients
ISPN-4414 Update documentation to use new request balancing interface