include: reorder UV_HANDLE_PRIVATE_FIELDS

The fields for UV_HANDLE_PRIVATE_FIELDS in uv-win.h and uv-unix.h are
the same, but in different order. Simply swap them so uv_handle_t are
the same on both platforms.

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Completely unnecessary I know, but has just been sticking in the back of my head. So decided to create the PR.