Make stdout deprecation warning more specific

In a Rails application with a large number of dependencies, it's hard to
know which library is emitting a warning. This adds "capybara-webkit" to
the deprecation warning.

Resolves #607.
Fix killing webkit_server on JRuby

Connection now waits until webkit_server has started to
discover the pid.
Fix build on Travis

Use require_relative for capybara_webkit_builder as RVM
on travis doesn't include lib directory in require paths
Skip forking spec on JRuby

* JRuby doesn't support `fork`, so this test is irrelevant.
Read the expected number of bytes from StringIO

* Instead of sleep, use blocking #read to determine if the expected
  message is logged.
* Fixes failure 2 from #615.
Use a pipe to test command logging

* JRuby doesn't write to StringIO in the same way as cruby/rbx, and the
  #read method used in connection_spec didn't work here.
* Fixes failure 3 from #615.
Build against JRuby (1.9 mode)