rustuv: Fix a tcp connect timeout bug on windows

When a uv_tcp_t is closed in libuv, it will still invoke the pending connect_cb,
and I thought that it would always call it with ECANCELED, but it turns out that
sometimes we'll get a different error code instead. Handle this case by checking
to see if the request's data is NULL and bail out if so (the timeout expired).
auto merge of #13638 : alexcrichton/rust/fix-windows-tcp-timeout-bug, r=brson

When a uv_tcp_t is closed in libuv, it will still invoke the pending connect_cb,
and I thought that it would always call it with ECANCELED, but it turns out that
sometimes we'll get a different error code instead. Handle this case by checking
to see if the request's data is NULL and bail out if so (the timeout expired).