[IMP] mail: store the reason when failing to send an email; usability improvements in configuration, now showing the number of failed emails + links for easier configuration.

Task: https://www.odoo.com/web?debug=#id=5051&view_type=form&model=project.task&action=333&active_id=131
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This method should be called "get_default_fail_mail", shouldn't it ?