create arq-wildfly-managed profile

* will start/stop wildfly itself
* will download wildfly if necessary
* will find free ports to use, so won’t ever get bind exceptions

This profile is intended to be mainly used by the CI server
arq-jbossas-remote profile needs more heap space
arq-jbossas-managed isn’t really working

(and isn’t necessary)
update wildfly to CR1
lock down the maven-resources-plugin version
Merge pull request #5 from CruGlobal/automate-wildfly-lifecycle

Automate wildfly lifecycle