[patch] Adjust behavior of FDE cross-section relocs for targets that don't support abs-differences.

Modern versions of OSX/Darwin's ld (ld64 > 97.17) have an optimisation present that allows the back end to omit relocations (and replace them with an absolute difference) for FDE some text section refs.

This patch allows a backend to opt-in to this behaviour by setting "DwarfFDESymbolsUseAbsDiff".  At present, this is only enabled for modern x86 OSX ports.

test changes by David Fang.