minor - remove default value for ChangeFilterOptions() and ChangeCompactionOptions()

Summary:
So now all open() in db_test should get options from callsite. And
destroy() always uses the last used options saved on open()
I will start to integrate env_mem in the next diff

Test Plan: make all check -j32

Reviewers: sdong, yhchiang, rven, igor

Reviewed By: igor

Subscribers: dhruba, leveldb

Differential Revision: https://reviews.facebook.net/D27819