Notify a resource by the `resource[name]` key it was written as

ResourceCollection currently fills 2 functions - it keeps an ordered list of resources to converge during the 2nd Chef phase, and it keeps a unique set of known resources keyed by the resource type and name (IE, `package[vim]`).

As part of fixing https://github.com/opscode/chef/issues/1817 I am attempting to seperate ResourceCollection into two classes that encompass the different purposes.  ResourceCollection is now a thin proxy in front of these two classes to keep backwards compatibility.

**EDIT**

I am keeping all backwards compatibility for ResourceCollection.  The implementation details still utilize 2 classes for the 2 purposes.  I also made the changes to support notifying resources by the key they were written with (which was the original problem).
the latter 3 arguments could be an optional options hash so that you can write:

```
insert(resource, at_location: 5)
```

rather than having to:

```
insert(resource, nil, nil, 5)
```