enable inclusive/preserve use in VMware_Array, VMware_Array_Hash

* use symbols not booleans for inclusive, preserve
* note behavior does change from previous claims
  * inclusive defaultto(true) did not create inclusive behavior by default
    (see vmware_lib: inclusive = self.class.inclusive == :true)
  * note insync? in lib/puppet/type/vshield_routes.rb -- no longer needed
* relies in part on https://github.com/vmware/vmware-vmware_lib/pull/45