ISPN-2577 Silence SuspectExceptions

* Added support for when a primary owner dies while replicating
  that the originator properly retries the command
* Also added check so originator wouldn't throw OutdatedTopologyException
  during post Entry wrapping since it was already committed in owners
ISPN-3355 Add support for clustered listeners

* Changed so CacheCreatedEvent is not accompanied by CacheModifiedEvent
ISPN-3355 Add support for clustered listeners