Findopm-parser.cmake: Fix it up, next try

thanks to Arne Morten Kvarving, Bård Skaflestad and Roland Kaufmann
for the discussion.
add the boost::regex library as a prerequisite

this is required for regex-matching keywords. Once GCC 4.9 is the
minimum compiler version to be supported, this can be dropped in favor
of std::regex ...
Merge pull request #162 from andlaus/sync_Findopm-parser.cmake

Sync findopm parser.cmake