Tauola114 backportto53 x

This pull request depends on cmsdist pull #914 and includes updates to new lifetime patch. This request is being put in before the cmsdist patch at the request of Josh Bendavid <Josh.Bendavid@cern.ch> and Vitaliano Ciulli <vitaliano.ciulli@cern.ch>. Before merging please and for any question please contact them.