templatized handling of graphics and video libvirt XML

Adding in template code which lets us completely customize the video/graphics configuration of vagrant-libvirt managed VMs.  This is useful for anyone running multiple GUI-based VMs, or in general with a GUI-based VM.

For example, with QEMU as the hypervisor, SPICE is a more attractive interface than VNC.

This fixes #238, and goes a bit further in templatizing more things.
What is the affect of setting `autoport` to `no` if two VMs are launched without changing the default `graphics_port` from 5900?