Update MonetDB to Oct2014-SP1 release and add optional packages

Update MonetDB to Oct2014-SP1
Set the correct readline when building.
Add instructions to install GEOS, UnixODBC, GSL, FITS and Sphinx.
Add libatomic_ops as a recommended dependency.
Also add option to enable the R-integration.
Add gettext and libtool for as building dependencies - they are needed for bootstrapping when building the head.
Remove the JAQL reference, removed in MonetDB Oct2014.
Yeh, we don't want the build to just fail with an error message from `./configure` if people use this option and it isn't installed.