[WIP] Improve shipping performance, add quantity to InventoryUnit

Marked WIP because this breaks `ReturnAuthorization`s (which are somewhat broken anyways, but going away soon)

This work was done with the goal of having a speedy checkout with an order having 50_000 of an item. Under the current master that results in 50_000 `InventoryUnit`s being inserted and then afterwards selected multiple times per request. This takes over a minute for some requests.

Existing InventoryUnits are migrated by setting quantity=1.

## Major Changes

`InventoryUnit` now has a `quantity`, which makes checking out any quantity of a line_item the same speed. This has resulted in a small amount of additional complexity, in the form of new `#remove` and `#fill_backorders` methods which each take a quantity.

`Shipment#to_package` now relies on `Shipment#manifest`, which fixes two issues with the previous implementation:
* It now correctly handles variant not matching line_item (which can be the case when using spree-product-assembly)
* It will now re-assemble the package with correct quantities. The existing implementation would have 

Optimized `Shipment#manifest`. It now performs counting of inventory quantities in SQL without loading or instantiating InventoryUnits. Variants and line_items are then loaded as two `SELECT FROM ... WHERE id IN (?)` queries. Previously it loaded all inventory units and then performed n+1 queries in order to select variants and line items.

Removed the `order` association on `InventoryUnit` and removed the `order_id` column. Order can always be determined from shipment, and it now delegates order to shipment.

As always, any feedback is appreciated.
Wondering if it wouldn't be worth it to leave the reference there, it should work at least as a shortcut for fetching all orders inventory units and it doesn't seem to add much overhead.