BuildBatchGroup -- memcpy outside of lock

Summary: When building batch group, don't actually build a new batch since it requires heavy-weight mem copy and malloc. Only store references to the batches and build the batch group without lock held.

Test Plan:
`make check`

I am also planning to run performance tests. The workload that will benefit from this change is readwhilewriting. I will post the results once I have them.

Reviewers: dhruba, haobo, kailiu

Reviewed By: haobo

CC: leveldb, xjin

Differential Revision: https://reviews.facebook.net/D15063