ncurses: update to ncurses-5.9, with upstream patches taken from fedora up to 20140323 :-( , this fixes some issues, segfaults etc with 'dialog' :-(, todo: replace dialog and ncurses if possible

Signed-off-by: Stephan Raue <stephan@openelec.tv>
xbmc: add patch to revert 5814e7f, which causes to not have the (full) list of avaible screenresolutions, so we cant use our own

Signed-off-by: Stephan Raue <stephan@openelec.tv>