[X86] Memory folding for commutative instructions.

This patch improves support for commutative instructions in the x86 memory folding implementation by attempting to fold a commuted version of the instruction if the original folding fails - if that folding fails as well the instruction is 're-commuted' back to its original order before returning.

This mainly helps the stack inliner better fold reloads of 3 (or more) operand instructions (VEX encoded SSE etc.) but by performing this in the lowest foldMemoryOperandImpl implementation it also replaces the X86InstrInfo::optimizeLoadInstr version and is now used by FastISel too.

Differential Revision: http://reviews.llvm.org/D5701