IR: Don't track nullptr on metadata RAUW

The RAUW support in `Metadata` supports going to `nullptr` specifically
to handle values being deleted, causing `ValueAsMetadata` to be deleted.

Fix the case where the reference is from a `TrackingMDRef` (as opposed
to an `MDOperand` or a `MetadataAsValue`).

This is surprisingly rare -- metadata tracked by `TrackingMDRef` going
to null -- but it came up in an openSUSE bootstrap during inlining.  The
tracking ref was held by the `ValueMap` because it was referencing a
local, the basic block containing the local became dead after it had
been merged in, and when the local was deleted, the tracking ref
asserted in an `isa`.