[depends] move ffmpeg to unified deps
[configure] remove internal ffmpeg
remove ffmpeg from tree
ffmpeg: remove dll wrappers
add ffmpeg lock manager
todo: refactor to own file
ffmpeg: move callbacks into separate file
remove ffmpeg dlls from generated headers
not removing win32 as this might still be needed?
sq to configure - add --with-ffmpeg=force option
this will always build our ffmpeg version, even if its found in system
videoplayer: adapt lateness detection and dropping to buffering
video player: present correct pts to user for a/v sync (after buffering in renderer)
videoplayer: some rework and documentation
renderer: bump buffers to 5
videoplayer: update frametime, it might change due to fps detection
videoplayer: give streams with invalid fps a chance for fps detection
dvdplayer: allow rewinding at end of stream, do a seek after rewind
X11: ditch SDL for video and window events
X11: Add xbmc icon
X11: add SDL joystick until we have a better solution
X11: factor out code handling device reset notification
X11: move xrandr events to WinEventsX11