filedesc: get rid of atomic_load_acq_int from fget_unlocked

A read barrier was necessary because fd table pointer and table size were
updated separately, opening a window where fget_unlocked could read new size
and old pointer.

This patch puts both these fields into one dedicated structure, pointer to which
is later atomically updated. As such, fget_unlocked only needs data a dependency
barrier which is a noop on all supported architectures.

Reviewed by:	kib (previous version)
MFC after:	2 weeks
filedesc: microoptimize fget_unlocked by retrying obtaining reference count
without restarting whole lookup

Restart is only needed when fp was closed by current process, which is a much
rarer event than ref/deref by some other thread.