ISPN-4291 Poor REPL state transfer performance with cache stores

https://issues.jboss.org/browse/ISPN-4400

* Skip the cache store iteration if the local node didn't lose any segments
* Move the invalidation after receiving the transaction data, so that write
  commands can be performed in parallel.
This is what happens only if `wasMember == false`. If `wasMember == true`, we start with the previously owned segments, not all the segments (line 403).