Enable properly nested addons

See #2354 for context.

This adds a `parentAddon` context for any nested addons included in a project. The `parentAddon` is supplied to each child addon on the addon instance as well as passed into the `included` hook.

The child addon is then free to determine if it should modify the `parentAddon` or the `app` from within the `included` hook.

This enables addons to have their own isolated dependencies which don't interfere with the root app's preprocessors. I.e. I can write my addon in Coffeescript, and the parent app doesn't need to depend on the Coffeescript addon directly.
I had it setup that way initially, but was worried about the added complexity. With this approach + passing `parentAddon` into `included`, simple addon authors can skip extending `Addon` entirely and just write a single `included` hook.

Again, happy to switch up if you'd prefer.