randomize which player begins
- you can now change the board size (is that still tic tac toe?)
- the server can now have a configuration file (if it doesn't,
  defaults are used)
- made the server a console application which can now accept commands
    (for
      changing board size or server shutdown)
- a minor layout fix for the confirm dialog
- changed the maximum username length
- client layout is more dynamic (to fit the board size)
- "oppo"s are now "opponent"s
- client and server now have versions which are being compared when
	a
	  client connects to the server (to prevent issues caused by too
	  old
	    versions in the future)
- all the files are in one java project folder now
- and more minor changes
edited readme