Fix wrong contactgroup service column and make better use of MySQL indexes
JS-less iFrame rendering improvements
Show exception message in title
One thing less TODO, had already been fixed two lines below
Better sort default for service status
Show menu with JS disabled (more related fixes still to come)

* fixes #5918
We need stricter control over Monitoring Object queries

* fromRequest-generated ones are sometimes buggy and sometimes slow
* this is just a temporary quickfix for the worst problems
Attempt to make it easier to distinct colors, old ones still commented