polarssl: fix path to headers for VPATH builds

When doing an out of tree build we need to look for headers
relative to the source directory, not the current directory
Fix make check warning

Making check in pdns
Makefile:2163: warning: overriding commands for target `check'
Makefile:2023: warning: ignoring old commands for target `check'
Unit tests are not enabled

Automake doesn't like the check target to
be overridden:
http://lists.gnu.org/archive/html/automake/2011-09/msg00028.html
Merge pull request #1593 from rubenk/fix-make-check-warning

Fix make check warning
Merge pull request #1594 from rubenk/polarssl-fix-include-path

polarssl: fix path to headers for VPATH builds
Fix make uninstall

Removing the .la files leaves the .so files
behind. Fixes #1590