HSEARCH-1494 &  HSEARCH-1092

Addresses the above issues.

It introduces `IndexedEmbedded#includeEmbeddedObjectId` as flag to explicitly control the embedded object id. If the id is explicitly listed via `includePaths` it still gets included. I think this approach had so far most support.

What is not addressed yet, is whether the default for the `IndexedEmbedded#depth` parameter should change to 0. However, this should probably be addressed in a separate issue anyways.