Add OS X proxy icon to title bar

![image](http://i.imgur.com/0WCzYA7.gif)

Fixes #1891.

Test Plan:

  * Opened Atom window in directory, verified directory icon shows up
  * Opened a file and verified icon changed
  * Right clicked icon, verified menu appears
  * Drag file to terminal and it pastes the file path (yay)
  * Opened a new Atom window and opened some files in that to make sure that
    it didn't change the original window

I didn't add any specs for this - advice welcome here. I also haven't tested
on Windows or Linux but it looks like `setRepresentedFilename` is a noop on
those platforms.
I think this event name should be `pane:active-item-modifed` instead, sound good?