Make a double-write UDP test more robust

I have a hunch this just deadlocked the windows bots. Due to UDP being a lossy
protocol, I don't think we can guarantee that the server can receive both
packets, so just listen for one of them.
auto merge of #12054 : alexcrichton/rust/less-flaky-udp, r=brson

I have a hunch this just deadlocked the windows bots. Due to UDP being a lossy
protocol, I don't think we can guarantee that the server can receive both
packets, so just listen for one of them.