[JNI] Each set function of Options / WriteOptions now returns its option instance.

Summary:
Make each set function of Options / WriteOptions return its option instance.
Java developers can now easier specify each option like the following:

    options.setCreateIfMissing(true)
        .setWriteBufferSize(8 * 1024)
        .setMaxWriteBufferNumber(3)
        .setDisableSeekCompaction(true)
        .setBlockSize(64 * 1024)
        .setMaxBackgroundCompactions(10);

Test Plan:
make rocksdbjava
make jtest

Reviewers: haobo, ankgup87, sdong, dhruba

Reviewed By: haobo

CC: leveldb

Differential Revision: https://reviews.facebook.net/D17661