new configuration prototype
updated new startup config to use jms server and add a stop command
Merge pull request #1749 from clebertsuconic/upmaster

https://bugzilla.redhat.com/show_bug.cgi?id=1125042 - forcing clients out when the server is stuck on delivery over OIO
Merge pull request #1736 from andytaylor/config-prototype2

new config for standalone
HORNETQ-1379 & https://bugzilla.redhat.com/show_bug.cgi?id=1125042 - using executor on ping flushes to avoid waiting for a lock