erlc: clean-up, enhance, and regression fix fd17693

* update files
* fix Dialyzer warning
* unconditionally enable info fil
* clean-up inconsistencies
* use term_to_binary compression
* use try...catch instead of case...catch...of
* do not write build info file if the graph is unmodified
* store info file as <base_dir>/.rebarinfo
* properly support list of compile directives
* fix regressions:
 - Fix a bug in handling of files to compile first.
 - If a file that is depended upon itself depends on other files, make sure
   those are compiled first. While at it, rename variables for correctness.
   Reported-by: David Robakowski
 - Make sure that FirstFiles has no dupes and preserves the proper order.
 - headers referenced via -include_lib() were not properly resolved to absolute
   filenames
 - .erl files found in sub dirs of src_dirs were not properly resolved to
   absolute filenames