[SPARK-3573][MLLIB] Make MLlib's Vector compatible with SQL's SchemaRDD

Register MLlib's Vector as a SQL user-defined type (UDT) in both Scala and Python. With this PR, we can easily map a RDD[LabeledPoint] to a SchemaRDD, and then select columns or save to a Parquet file. Examples in Scala/Python are attached. The Scala code was copied from jkbradley.

~~This PR contains the changes from #3068 . I will rebase after #3068 is merged.~~

marmbrus jkbradley

Author: Xiangrui Meng <meng@databricks.com>

Closes #3070 from mengxr/SPARK-3573 and squashes the following commits:

3a0b6e5 [Xiangrui Meng] organize imports
236f0a0 [Xiangrui Meng] register vector as UDT and provide dataset examples