IR: Move NumOperands from User to Value, NFC

Store `User::NumOperands` (and `MDNode::NumOperands`) in `Value`.

On 64-bit host architectures, this reduces `sizeof(User)` and all
subclasses by 8, and has no effect on `sizeof(Value)` (or, incidentally,
on `sizeof(MDNode)`).

On 32-bit host architectures, this increases `sizeof(Value)` by 4.
However, it has no effect on `sizeof(User)` and `sizeof(MDNode)`, so the
only concrete subclasses of `Value` that actually see the increase are
`BasicBlock`, `Argument`, `InlineAsm`, and `MDString`.  Moreover, I'll
be shocked and confused if this causes a tangible memory regression.

This has no functionality change (other than memory footprint).